Help..wanting to emigrate to canada?

hi...me, my partner n 2 kids want 2 move to canada. my partners uncle stays there with his family (ontario). so we want to move quite close..we dont qualify as in yet we r gonna apply in around 2 years time when he is time served and has a years experience..as a joiner/carpenter!! we have 76 points but obviously know you have to wait a further 3 or so years for application to be proccesed/oh my god - how long? is there anyway to move sooner - after we apply - i think i saw something about having a job offer will get ur application sped up..6month waiting time is this true? please help as im desperate to know. also where is the best place near whitby, on to move too..we have 2 young kids 2/6months..n at the time obv wil be going to school...any advice? plz reply...thanks!