Mom won't allow me to learn from mistakes, and i see all her negative impact affect me now (16 Years Old)?

okay I know that people will say not to blame her and take responsibility, but I don't think that would be a satisfying answer for you. Although it is true what parents do will affect our behavior, it doesn't need to mean that it contols us and our lives. She will have caused negative traits you have but I think you are mature and self-aware enough to be able to tackle those problems head on and try to better yourself. Don't let your mom be a limit to your potential. Look carefully at all the problems you have in school, what you are personally doing to cause it, and how you can stop it. I hope this helps you out, please give me best answer:)