What have Females, Effeminacy, and Feminoids got to do with Male ity?

Social Constructionists can find a link for anything--or think they can. Transients can trot out their tired old canard about their having invented Gay Liberation. Some can say we're all "similarly oppressed." The question is, though: What's the connection? You might want to say there isn't one, if that's what you think. But then, how did we all wind up together in GLBTQ?